About Me

  • About Me: 'and all of the things that I said that I wanted~ come rushing in by my head when I'm with you~14 joys and a will to be merry~and all of the things that we say are very~sentimental gentle wind~blowing through my life again~sentimental lady, gentle one....' In addition to that...I am a wife, mother, poet, painter, student, cook, daughter, friend. Not as good as I want to be, not as bad as I used to be, always trying to be what I'm meant to be.

Music

  • Favorite Artists: Allman Brothers, Bob Dylan, Eric Clapton, Neil Young, U2, Melissa Etheridge, Mary-Chapin Carpenter, Alabama, the Eagles, Billy Joel, Restless Heart, Daniel Lanois, Enigma, Dire Straits, George Harrison, Laura Nyro, Leonard Cohen, Van Morrison, Guy Clark, John Hiatt, John Prine, John Mayer, the Bellamy Brothers, Gary Morris, Clint Black, Brooks & Dunn, Bad Company, the Beach Boys, Peter Gabriel, Ed Bruce, Vern Gosdin, Bruce Springsteen, Alan Parsons Project, Moody Blues, Foreigner, Simon & Garfunkel, Ray Price, Ed Ames, Chuck Mangione, Gordon Lightfoot, ANY and EVERYthing by John Denver and Harry Chapin, Crowded House, R.E.M., Josh Groban, Barry White, John Mellencamp, the Byrds, Journey, ZZTop...let's just say I have eclectic tastes, hmmm?? I mean, I love the '40s big band sound, too, want me to start listing Tommy Dorsey and such? :)
  • Favorite Albums: 'Blonde on Blonde', 'Nashville Skyline' (Dylan); 'Layla and Other Love Songs', 'Pilgrim', 'Slowhand', 'August' (Clapton); Hootie and the Blowfish 'Cracked Rear View'; 'Skin', 'Breakdown', 'Yes I Am' (Etheridge); 'Come On Come On', 'Stones in the Road' (Carpenter); 'Born in the USA'(the BOSS!) 'The Coast of Colorado' (Ewing) 'An Innocent Man' (Joel--EVERY cut, because it's the album that Grizzy and I fell in love to, and I have worn out at least 4 copies of it and I think I had it in every format except 8-track!)
  • Favorite Genre: oh, just about everything there is except for rap, hip/hop....I like music from way before my time and all the way through...it just depends on my mood...
  • Favorite Songs: 'I Only Have Eyes for You' by the Flamingos; Bob Welch's 'Sentimental Lady'; 'Wildflower' by Skylark; 'Rainy Night in Georgia' by Brook Benton; 'Please Come to Boston' by Dave Loggins; 'Someone Like You,' 'Tupelo Honey' and 'Have I Told You Lately' by Van Morrison; Joe Cocker's 'You Can Leave Your Hat On' and 'Don't You Love Me Anymore?'; 'I Wanna Know What Love Is' and ' I Have Waited So Long' by Foreigner; 'A Matter of Trust' and 'Goodnight Saigon' by Billy Joel; 'Your Body is a Wonderland' by John Mayer; 'Feels So Right' 'Lady Down On Love', and 'She and I', by Alabama;'When I Said I Do' by Clint Black and Lisa Hartman Black,and 'Like the Rain' by Clint Black; 'Heal Me,' 'Sleep/My Lover', 'The Weakness in Me','Like the Way I Do' and 'Come to My Window' by Melissa Etheridge;Leonard Cohen's 'Dance Me to the End of Love' and 'I'm Your Man'; 'I Can't Tell You Why' by the Eagles; the Allman Brothers 'Melissa' and 'Seven Turns'; 'Pieces of April,' 'Brickyard Blues' and 'Easy to be Hard' by Three Dog Night; 'Slow Burn' by T.G. Sheppard; Mary-Chapin Carpenter's "Shut Up and Kiss Me,' 'Grow Old With Me', 'He Thinks He'll Keep Her', 'Not Too Much to Ask', and 'The Hard Way' (among MANY others); 'Forever Autumn' by the Moody Blues; 'Wasted on the Way' and 'Southern Cross' by CSN (and 'Ohio' by CSN&Y--WHAT a howl of outrage!); Neil Young's 'Unknown Legend' and 'Harvest Moon,' 'Small Town' and 'Cherry Bomb' and 'This Time' and 'Crumblin' Down' by John Mellencamp; Martin Page and 'In the House of Stone and Light' and 'Put On Your Red Dress'; 'Beautiful,' 'Baby, Step Back' 'Sundown,' ( I.LOVE.THE.GUITAR. on this one) 'The Circle is Small' and 'The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald' and 'Daylight Katy' by Gordon Lightfoot; Scott McKenzie's 'San Francisco'; Robert Palmer's 'I Didn't Mean to Turn You On'; Peter Gabriel's 'Steam';'Harvest Moon' and 'Unknown Legend' by Neil Young; 'My Back Pages' and 'Lay, Lady, Lay' by Bob Dylan(along with just about every other song he ever wrote or recorded); 'Sweet Home Alabama' by Lynyrd Skynyrd; 'Abraham, Martin & John' by Dion and 'American Pie', 'Vincent,' and 'Castles in the Air' by Don McLean; 'As Long As You Love Me' by the Backstreet Boys; 'Back For Good' by Take That and 'If You're Gone' by Matchbox Twenty; 'Have Love Will Travel' by Jimmy Belushi and Danny Aykroyd; 'The Chair' by George Strait; 'You're Not Leavin' Here Tonight' by Ed Bruce; 'Sometimes a Lady' by Eddy Raven; Restless Heart's 'Back to the Heartbreak Kid,' 'Dancy's Dream,' 'Fast Movin' Train' and ''When She Cries'; 'Fire and Smoke,' 'Dreamin's All I Do' and 'What I'd Say' by Earl Thomas Conley; 'Time Stood Still' by Vern Gosdin; Toby Keith's 'You Shouldn't Kiss Me Like This,' 'I Love This Bar,' 'Beer for my Horses' and 'We Were in Love'; Aaron Tippin singing 'For You I Will'; and 'Almost' by Cheryl Wheeler, Kim Richey's 'Those Words We Said,' Trisha Yearwood's 'The Song Remembers When' and 'How Do I Live', 'Don't Close Your Eyes Tonight' by John Denver...too many to list, obviously...and yet I go on...:)
  • Favorite Lyrics: 'let her cry, for she's a lady~~let her dream, for she's a child...let the rain fall down upon her~~she's a free and gentle flower growing wild.....' and....'I'd give up forever to touch you, 'cause I know that you feel me somehow....'
  • Songs for Roadtrips: A good mix of the above artists/albums/songs and anything else that strikes my fancy at the moment...really anything that makes me want to reach over and TURN IT UP (like 'Sweet Home Alabama', just like Ronnie says to...)
  • Songs I hate: 'Grandma Got Run Over by a Reindeer' and 'Fancy' (excuse me, sending your child off to prostitute herself and telling her 'don't let me down? Reba should be shot for that one!) I can't stand really syrupy country music. And I like Contemporary Christian music, most of it anyway (especially Third Day) but keep that Southern influenced camp meeting sappy gospel AWAY from me!
  • Guilty Pleasure: Hitting repeat on something I really like and listening to it over and over....like John Parr's 'Naughty, Naughty' or Benjamin Orr's 'Stay the Night'..oh, and John Berry's 'Kiss Me in the Car',Donnie Iris and 'Ah! Leah!', Sammy Hagar's 'Mas Tequila!' or Van Halen's 'Jump' or 'I'll Wait,' Springsteen's 'Dancin' in the Dark' and the Fabulous Thunderbirds 'Tuff Enuff' or even Eddy Grant's 'Electric Avenue.' And usually this means I'm dancing...and if I'm not dancing, then I'm driving, tapping out the beat on the steering wheel and singing louder than I do anywhere else.
  • Songs I repeat the most: the original version of 'Layla' and 'Cocaine'....'Wonderful Tonight' and the remake of 'After Midnight'....guess I DO believe Clapton is GOD!
  • Band I wish I was in: hmmm, hadn't thought about it.... guess it would be the powerful group of women I saw on an awards show when Mary-Chapin Carpenter was singing 'The Hard Way'...it's one of my all-time favorite songs, and watching them walking down the steps behind her, adding their voices in this strong and beautiful arrangement...Kathy Mattea, Roseanne Cash, Trisha Yearwood...WOWSERS, as Grizzy says. Yes. I would want to be part of that group. I mean, think about the lyric: 'show a little passion, baby, show a little style.....' What woman wouldn't feel good about that? And.....USA for Africa and "We Are the World." Believing as I do, so passionately, about our responsibility to one another in this family of man...and remembering how very much I loved that song and the way it made me FEEL so much, SO much....I would have wanted to be one of that incredible gift, the ones who 'checked their egos at the door,' and sang the way Ray taught them....

More About Me

  • Nicknames: Gracie, Cookie, KitchenBabe.
  • Nationality: A lovely mixture, aren't we all? German and English, mostly.
  • Religion: Christian. Mostly Baptist, but have at times attended Presbyterian, Methodist, Church of Christ churches...and gave some thought to Catholicism. Quite intrigued by Quakers! My new church home is Grace Brethren, and it's done amazingly blessed things for my soul.
  • Heroes: Anyone who stands behind their beliefs and doesn't go with the flavor of the month and whatever's cool today....I mean, you can dazzle me for five minutes, but after that you have to KNOW something!
  • Interests: Reading, which I could do before I started school; writing, which I've been doing forever; music! both listening and playing; traveling, learning languages, painting, cooking, hiking, kayaking, exploring thrift shops and making new things from old, good conversation, laughing with my family and friends...and much more.
  • Expertise: Writing and cooking and finding the best in things...being happy with where I am right now and what I have.
  • Occupation: Writer, copywriter, promoted upward so my new title is "HEY! LIBRARY LADY!"....all of which I love
  • Industry: BOOKS..from beginning to end, forever and ever, amen.

Movies

  • Favorite Movies: 'On Golden Pond', 'A Walk in the Clouds', 'Indian Summer', 'the Big Chill', 'the Lake House', 'Frankie and Johnny' (the Pacino/Pfeiffer version), '28 Days', 'While You Were Sleeping', 'Sleepless in Seattle','Return to Me', 'When Harry Met Sally', 'Ulee's Gold', 'Rob Roy', 'Shattered Glass', 'the Paper,' 'the Story of Us', 'the Rainmaker' (Lancaster/Hepburn version) 'Dirty Dancing,' 'Man of La Mancha,' 'the Electric Horseman' 'Shall We Dance?, 'the Notebook,' 'An Officer and a Gentleman,' Frequency' 'Hoosiers,' 'Rudy'....and many many others...
  • Favorite Actors: Tom Hanks, Sandra Bullock, Tommy Lee Jones, Richard Dreyfuss, Liev Schreiber, Harrison Ford ,Gary Sinise, Ed Harris, Dustin Hoffman, Al Pacino, Robert DeNiro, Robert Redford, Peter Sarsgaard, Liam Neeson, Bill Pullman, Bill Paxton, and many many others...
  • Favorite Directors: Ron Howard, Nora Ephron, Christopher Guest, Steven Spielberg, Penny Marshall...don't think that much about who's directing it, though
  • Favorite Genre: romantic comedies, romance, dramas, suspense (but not blood and gore), indie films, documentaries and mockumentaries (c'mon, you don't like 'A Mighty Wind' or 'This is Spinal Tap'?) historical dramas, actually most kinds barring sci fi/fantasy and even then there's been a few I liked, never horror though...
  • Favorite Soundtracks: 'the Big Chill'
  • Movie Quotes I say all the time: "Everything I want is in this room" ('Frankie and Johnny') and 'Those are just things you've done, that's not who you are.' (from "28 Days")
  • Movies I can watch over and over: Any from the above list, as well as 'Rear Window', 'Singin' in the Rain', 'It's a Wonderful Life'...I'm a sucker for the classic old movies....
  • Actor that would play me in a movie: hmmm....I don't look like Sandra Bullock at ALL, but I think she'd be the one...because she has a wonderful mix of strength and vulnerability and so do I. And I think she's loveable, and so am I. :)

Books

  • Favorite Books: First, last and always: "THE LAST CONVERTIBLE" by Anton Myrer (although there are lots of others I like very much.) This has been my favorite since first reading it in 1979. I buy every used copy I ever find, because I love to give it away, and I have given away hundreds by now. I will be buried with a copy of this book.
  • Favorite Authors: Myrer, of course (although I didn't like his other books as much) John Steinbeck, Ernest Hemingway, Joan Didion, Edna Ferber, Bess Streeter Aldrich, Laura Ingalls Wilder, Elizabeth Enright, Laura Z. Hobson, Gladys Taber, Elinor Lipman, Ann Hood, Beth Gutcheon, Suzanne Strempek Shea, Judith Ryan Hendrix, Anne LaMott, Jacquelyn Mitchard, Joyce Maynard, Bob Greene (former Chicago columnist, not the fitness expert, though I do like him too) and many, many, MANY others. I mean, I didn't even go into all the poets I like (McKuen, McWilliams, Kavanaugh, Byron, Keats, Yeats, Whitman, Frost, Shakespeare of COURSE--and not just his poetry....)
  • Favorite Genres: Biographies, Novels, Armchair Travel and Outdoorsy Memoirs, Health and Cooking, Self-Help, How-To's, Relationships....actually, just about anything except for Sci-Fi or Fantasy. Tried 'em, but they just don't do it for me.
  • Favorite Characters: Chris and George in my favorite book, Jossie in Hobson's "Untold Millions", Wyn in "Bread Alone" and "The Baker's Apprentice," the unnamed jilted fiancee in Shea's "Selling the Lite of Heaven," the Melendy family in Enright's books and Claire in "Where Love Goes," and Melinda in Lipman's "The Way Men Act," and Arlington LeGrande in Mitchard's "The Most Wanted".....to name JUST a few!
  • Favorite Quotes: "In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer." Camus
  • Recent Reads: "The Year of Magical Thinking" and many, many others...but that's the one that dug right into my soul and stayed there.

Style

  • Where I shop: thrift shops and consignment stores and eBay, because I like to be unique
  • Brands I love: anything really well made
  • I like to wear: no shoes.....in the summer mostly shades of blue, purple, white or coral, always a long sundress or gypsy type skirt; in cooler weather I like to wear black, midnight blue, burgundy or bottle green velvets and soft things...I like natural fibers. I even like to wear jeans and boots now and then, it just depends on my mood. But my style is always, no matter the season, shamelessly romantic.
  • Can't live without: my red cowboy boots, vintage white voile nighties and lingerie (not worn at the same time as the boots, of course) and really great sweaters; rings and interesting necklaces (especially stones like coral, lapis, jade, ivory and so on) cloisonne bracelets, and scarves/shawls/stoles.
  • Prized Possessions: abovementioned boots and a pair of incredible black lace pumps (even though I'm not a shoe person) and my collection of tan-through swimsuits
  • Guilty Pleasure: owning lots of what I like to wear, since it's all so inexpensive I have a really big wardrobe...but I wear it all for years and years...and I love to mix it up and try new combinations of things I already have--that's as good as new clothes for someone like me.

Television

  • Favorite Shows: mostly canceled ones...loved "American Dreams." Also earlier years of some of the long running ones, like "ER" and "M*A*S*H" and "Friends" and "The Waltons," after a while they let them run too long! "St. Elsewhere," both Bob Newhart series, anything by Bill Cosby, the "Mary Tyler Moore" and "Dick Van Dyke" shows..."I Love Lucy." "Family" and "Family Ties." Loved most of "Murphy Brown." And I still miss "thirtysomething," and "Sisters"... always will :( Anyone besides me remember "Homefront"? How about "A Year in the Life"?
  • Favorite Channels: A&E, Lifetime, Nick at Nite and TVLand (because I love seeing the old '70s sitcoms) Biography and History Channels, Oxygen, PBS...
  • Favorite Reruns: any of the abovementioned, most years of "Designing Women"
  • Most Addictive Show: 'Mad About You.' I will ALWAYS watch this one, it's so Grizzy and me! And recently, 'Dawson's Creek' because I couldn't get it when it was on in primetime. It's better than I'd thought it would be. I love watching Joshua Jackson look at, and touch, the girl he loves....
  • Favorite Late Night Talk Show: none
  • Favorite Episode: the arc on 'Mad About You' where they nearly broke up
  • Characters you relate to: Charlene on "Designing Women"
  • Favorite Theme Song: don't think I have one, well, I did love the theme music for "thirtysomething"...that pretty, breathy flute-y and guitar music...I even bought the soundtrack and every track is great!
  • Show I Secretly Watch: stuff on CourtTV...I never cease to wonder at the things we do to one another...
  • Show I wished wasn't cancelled: "thirtysomething" "Sisters" and "American Dreams"

Contact Info

  • AIM: theGentleFlower
  • MSN: HoneySweet
  • Yahoo: GrizzyNGracie

Food

  • Favorite Cuisine: Italian and Mexican
  • Favorite Dishes: Cobb salad (hold the bleu cheese, please); chicken, fish and shrimp; pasta primavara or linguine bolognese; fresh multi-grain bread and cheese, any kind of fresh berries you got, bananas and ruby-red grapefruit and Pink Lady apples. Spinach, wonderful tomatoes, a great baked potato (really REALLY BAKED, not steamed in the microwave!) Good wine, good coffee, sun-brewed iced tea with lemon in the summer, steaming blackberry tea with blackberry brandy, honey and lemon in the winter....and homemade cocoa with a shot of Kahlua. Ice cream. Dark chocolate. Fresh popcorn. Natural almonds. Peanuts mixed with raisins. Homemade yogurt with homemade granola (yes, I do make my own on both counts) mixed with fresh fruit.
  • Favorite Desserts: Blackberry pie, chocolate cheesecake, ice cream with fresh strawberries.
  • Favorite Drinks: In addition to those above? Fresh lemonade or cranberry juice with a twist of lime, spring water with lemon, champagne for special occasions. A really terrific milkshake now and then.
  • Favorite Junk Foods: Potato chips or terrific French fries, and a good doughnut. Obviously, though, I don't eat these very often.
  • Best meal ever: Grilled meat: chicken, pork tenderloin or a great steak, with a baked potato stuffed with steamed vegetables and a little sour cream..unless fresh corn and tomatoes are in season!
  • My Original Recipes: Devils' food cake, many bread and soup recipes, a lot of cookie recipes and some great salad dressings....I AM writing a cookbook, you know?
  • Favorite Restaurants: Any place with great seafood, Italian or Mexican food.
  • Foods I hate: Tuna casserole and goulash....overcooked veggies, mushy pasta, anything greasy.

Travel

  • Places I love: New York City, England, Greece, Italy, Montana, Colorado, Maine and Connecticut and Vermont, Chicago, Washington D.C. Kentucky...and others...
  • Places I've been: New York City, D.C. Kentucky, Michigan, Wisconsin, Illinois...and others
  • Places to see before I die: England, Greece, Italy...
  • Dream Vacation: some wonderful secluded beach....or else a summer at 'Golden Pond.'

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  • mtnfairy
    Hi lady. I deleted your registration on the RMMB as you requested. Deleted me too. *G* Remember this? (It probably won't work because I forgot how to write code..)